How to stop eating when you’re not hungry!
I know perfectly well that you should only eat when you’re hungry. Unfortunately there is a part of my brain that thinks I should eat when I feel like it. It’s the same part responsible for “eyes bigger than stomach” syndrome – something else I suffer from regularly!
So why do people eat when they’re not hungry? There are many emotional reasons why people eat: tiredness, sadness, happiness, anger, hormones, and a need to comfort eat. I think I’m right in saying that generally women are more subject to emotional eating than men. However, the two main reasons why I eat when I’m not hungry are just boredom and simply being greedy!
I don’t mean I’m bored out of my mind, merely that a lot of the tasks I do are not terribly exciting a lot of the time: housework, commuting, my job, admin at home etc., and I find low level distraction like eating a welcome break. And as for being greedy, well I just like eating nice food and can find it hard to resist at times, especially if its there in front of me.
So here is a list, a compilation of things you can do to combat emotional eating, boredom eating, and plain old greed!
To help remove cravings:
- Clean your teeth after a meal
- Chew sugar free gum
- Eat sugar free mints
- Have a glass of water
- Have a cup of green tea or fruit tea
- Wait 30 minutes before allowing yourself a snack – the craving may pass
Physical distraction – quick:
- Move to another part of the house far away from the kitchen
- Change the activity you are doing
- Do one minute of star jumps
- Do a crossword puzzle
- Cut your nails
- Run up and down the stairs
- Reply to a few posts on an online forum
- Phone a friend
- Write in your diary or do a blog post
- Tweet
- Read a magazine article
Physical distraction – long:
- Go out for a walk
- Find an activity to get absorbed in: a book, a film, a computer game or a jigsaw puzzle
- Do some gardening
- Do a housework task
- Meditate or practice the relaxation response
- Take a long bath or shower
- Get a new hobby that will keep your fingers and mind busy – cross-stitch or a musical instrument for example
- Do some yoga
- Do an exercise DVD
- Go to the shop for a paper – cone home and read it
Preventative measures:
- Remove unhealthy snacks from the house
- Take a healthy packed lunch and snacks to work
- Keep cup a soup in your drawer in the office
- Stick a note on the fridge in large type which says ARE YOU REALLY HUNGRY?
- Don’t have “just one” – it will lead to more
- Don’t stay up late watching telly
- Keep a food diary to make your snacking accountable
- Plan treats into your diet to remove feelings of deprivation
Combat the emotions:
- Calmly consider the long term effect of too many snacks on your digestion and health – is it really worth it?
- Try and tune in to your hunger signals, are they really there, or is another emotion at the surface?
- Are you stressed? – Try to address the root cause, don’t cover it with food
- Do you have a genuine problem but don’t know the answer? – Perhaps therapy is the answer to help you address your issues
At the supermarket:
- Only allow yourself to buy the things on your list
- Don’t go into a supermarket spontaneously
- Don’t go into a supermarket when you’re hungry
- Don’t buy unhealthy foods just because they are on offer
- Try not to browse in a supermarket
- Purposely purchase some healthy snacks if you have a tendency to snack
If you give in, go for damage limitation:
- Have a cup a soup
- Eat some vegetable sticks: carrot, celery, cucumber
- Eat some pickled onions or beetroot
- Choose a snack that involves effort to eat – nuts with shells in, satsumas, lychees
- Lay the snack on a plate, don’t eat from the bag
- Eat mindfully, slowly, and consciously
Next time I get the urge to snack when I’m not hungry I’m going to try referring to my own list – hopefully just having made the list will make my head think that I should practice what I preach!
October 26th, 2012 at 19:08
i really enjoyed reading this article….great tips…and your honesty is refreshing to me… i’m at the point that whenever i eat anything i feel ashamed and spiral….it’s a long spiral and i hope i can get a grip in it thanks for being on here
October 26th, 2012 at 19:15
Thanks Tracy, I’m glad you found it helpful! The road to healthy eating is definitely long and tricky in today’s world – supporting each other is the way to go. x